Monday, January 07, 2008

Interesing post

"stumbled" on litwee's blog
her blog not tt updated, so i din add her to my list
anyway got an interesting post from her blog:
http://litwee.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!423BF6FF1731D182!124.entry

why do we feel the way we do?

Even when we are self-aware and introspect to our heart's content. it can be difficult to know WHY we feel the way we do...

Why you love someone?
Being in love typically makes you fell giddy, euphoric, and preoccupied:
in fact, ancient Greeks thought love was a sickness.

But why do you feel this way? Exactly what is it about your sweetheart that made you fall in love? We know it is something about our loved one's looks personality, values, and background.
But precisely what?
How can we possibly descrie the speacial chemistry that exits between two people?

A friend of mine once fell love with a girl because she was plain and simple. But what's "plain and simple"?
Was this really the reason?

The heart works in such mysterious ways that it is difficult to tell...

Isn't it??


==taken and modified from Social Psychology, Knowing Ourselves Through Introspection==


让我想起了《大话西游》里的一段话:爱一个人需要理由吗?需要吗?不需要吗?
为什么一个女孩会让我们如此深深的对她着迷?是什么原因呢?如果是因为她怎样怎样的,那么,若之后遇到了另一个女孩,她也同样的怎样怎样的,难道也一样喜欢上这女孩吗?
就打个比方,可能你说你喜欢她是因为她的笑容,那么,若果隔日,你遇到了另一个拥有同样笑容的女孩,你是否也同样喜欢上这女孩?那么,原先认识的那个女孩又当怎么办?

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